In my efforts to organize my life and get a better grasp on our finances, I stumbled upon a community or a group of communities in the blogosphere. They are centered around the disciplines of frugality and simplicity.
For the past several years my family, my friends and I seem to be living at an ever increasing pace. Our responsibilities, commitments, and finances seem to be growing exponentially more complex. We have been living in a state of exhaustion. In this frenetic rush my relationship with my wife and kids gets pushed to the back burner.
To be entirely honest, making time for prayer, the Scriptures and catechizing my children, even attending church, has been often more than we could manage. (It probably didn’t help when I accepted a promotion several years ago that demanded upwards of 60 hours a week and working ten hours a day every Sunday.)
Not too long ago I was reaching a breaking point. My health was beginning to deteriorate. I was exhausted and depressed. I would come home from work with nothing left to give emotionally to my family.
Together, my wife and I made the decision that I should step down from my position and return to working part time for my employer. It was a good call. Slowly I caught up on my rest and settled into becoming reacquainted with my family. We returned to regular church attendance.
This chapter in my life has caused me to reflect deeply on our culture’s call to become enmeshed in work for the sake of money and possessions. Today it is called ‘consumerism.’ The Scriptures call it covetousness or greed, they name the fear of privation as unbelief and lack of faith.
In an effort to enlist aid in a new way of life I searched the internet and found several blogs that have really helped guide me. Through these blogs I have been introduced to an entire online community devoted to sane and frugal personal finance and the discipline of simplicity.
The first site is The Simple Dollar. This blog is devoted to simplifying and organizing your personal finances. Trent Hamm started this blog to help people dig themselves out of bad financial situations after he recovered from his own financial meltdown. Trent is a Christian, but his faith is not the main thrust of his site, and he mentions his faith tangentially where appropriate. He covers everything from eating inexpensively to simple budgeting and investing. He also has tons of tips on saving money and regularly does book reviews. His writing is clear and he strikes an encouraging and even-handed tone.
Through the links on his site I found the second blog that has been extremely helpful, Zen Habits. (NO, I am not becoming a Zen Buddhist.) Leo Babauta has devoted his blog to the discipline of simplicity in every area of life. He does wax a little New Age on occasion, but the the benefit of his writing transcends those issues.
Years ago Leo found himself in a similar situation to the one I faced and decided it was time to prioritize and ruthlessly cut out all that was not in line with what he valued most: family, friends, and a sane relationship with his vocation. There are tons of great posts on simplifying your work, your budget and finances, simple ways to increase your productivity at work, how to overcome bad habits and instill good ones, how to simplify diet and exercise, even how to cultivate the habit of getting up early. Check out his ‘Start Here’ column.
Explore the links on these two sites and you will find a wealth of sites devoted to living simply and living debt free. There is an explosion of interest in what is termed minimalism or the simple life and the accompanying discipline of frugality.
The traditions of frugality (stewardship) and simplicity have a long and honored history among Christ’s people. It is refreshing to find a resurgence of these disciplines in our culture.
These sites have been of immense help to me. One of the themes that they have pounded into me is that if I ruthlessly cut expenses, get out and stay out of debt, and live within my means, I don’t need to spend every waking hour slaving away at a job to the detriment of my faith and my family. I actually have time and energy to devote to what is most important in life, and, strangely enough, do a much better job at my work. I hope our friends and readers will find much help and encouragement from these sites and the accompanying links.
By Pat K